Predicting exactly how the courts will split your assets in a divorce usually isn't possible, but you can at least get an idea for what is available by looking over your marital assets and determining what is separate property. The Colorado family courts typically...
No contact orders include texts
If you have been victimized by domestic violence, you may seek ways to cut yourself off from your abuser. You could decide that simply leaving the home and the relationship is not enough. You want a no-contact order so that they cannot be around you at all. While this...
Why do children think divorce is their fault?
You know that your children did not cause your divorce. The issues in your marriage, between the two of you as a couple, did that. Maybe it was financial stress, not spending enough time together, growing apart or not being faithful to the marriage. No matter the...
Tell your children about the divorce together
Holding a family meeting to discuss divorce may be a difficult topic to bring up, but it is absolutely important to have this talk as a family. Include everyone. You and your spouse should tell the children together, and you should have all of your children in the...
The dangers of abuse allegations in a custody case
Have you heard of parental alienation syndrome (PAS)? It’s a term that’s been around for decades, based on a theory proposed by a child psychologist who wrote about what he found to be a “shocking number” of child custody battles that involved a mother alleging that...
Dealing with one of the most difficult parts of your divorce
The decision to divorce is usually only made after considerable thought about whether the relationship is salvageable or not. Once you know that you’re going to divorce, you have to embark on one of the most difficult aspects of the end of the marriage – dealing with...
Deciding what’s in your children’s best interests during divorce
During a divorce, it's easy to turn into some kind of ego monster who can only think about their own feelings and desires. If you have children, however, you can't afford to become so focused on yourself that you don't act to protect your children during what will...
How is paternity determined?
You loved your child the moment they were born, but after a long discussion with your girlfriend, you knew that there was a potential that you were not the father. You want to ask for paternity testing, but you already signed a voluntary acknowledgment of paternity....
Helping your children adjust to divorce
It’s no secret that a divorce can be difficult for children. They may want the parents to stay together, they may not like all the changes in their lives, and especially with younger children, they may not really understand why this is all happening. As a parent, you...
Spot the warning signs a child isn’t coping well with divorce
Divorce is never easy when children are involved. Kids often find it difficult to understand the situation and to cope with their parents splitting up. They often blame themselves or think their actions can prevent the divorce. It can take a year or longer for your...